UPDATE !!!!!!!
thanks for all the tips, still have the hesitation, i did change the fuel filter first thing, i tried disconnecting the wire and still there !!! somwhere else i read EGR Valve, it said disconnect and plug the lines and try it but it still did it to !!! then upon further digging i scanned the computer and it has a code and reads as follows............
EGR open command did not change MAP sensor signal. Normal EGR flow should cause slight decrease in manifold vacuum which would change MAP sensor signal.
Now i guess maybe i will replace the EGR??? also i see there is a EGR Vacuum Solenoid ??? maybe i should replace that to???? Any thoughts???
thanks !!!!!!