It's very sad :cry: what it takes for people to snap and decide to do these horrible acts :twisted: . The children that have done no harm always windup at the short end of the stick. I try to always think about the other guy and yes losing a job can be devastating but you need to realize that somewhere in this world there are people worse off then you. It's ashame that he felt he didn't want to leave the children with anyone else but i'll bet there would be 1000's of people that would have taking them if they knew that this could (and did) happen.