YOU KNOW THE PATHETIC PART OF THIS WHOLE DEAL IS BOTH OF YOU ARE WRONG IN THE WAY YOUR DEALING WITH THIS!!!!!---ONE GETS ON HERE AND GRIPES AND GRIPES AND GRIPES ETC..---THE OTHER GETS ON HERE AND LIES AND PUTS OFF THE SIMPLE ANSWERS AND WON'T ADMIT HE MESSED UP ---BUT YOU BOTH KEEP POSTING THE LONG VERSION OF ALL YOUR EMAILS/ CONVERSATIONS/ Past girlfriends/ family history/ unimportant things!!!!!!! ----GET A LIFE [BOTH OF YOU--THIS ISN'T THE JERRY SPRINGER SHOW]---IF YOU CAN'T SETTLE THIS QUICKLY THEN PUT IT BEHIND YOU AS A LESSON LEARNED AND LET THIS FORUM GO BACK TO HELPING PEOPLE THAT WANT TO BE HELPED AND IN CASE YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH [ JUST SWALLOW YOUR PRIDE AND GROW UP] ---LIVELY